Pregnant
and new mothers who battle with depression, anxiety or obsessive thinking
are also battling the myths our society has created around having babies.
Many women expect to love everything about being pregnant, bond immediately
with their babies, and feel grateful and content with every moment of motherhood.
The reality is, sometimes
being a mom is exhausting.
Some pregnant women have
deep fears about becoming mothers. Some women have great stressors in their
lives while they are pregnant that overshadow the connection to the life
growing inside them.
Some
babies have very high needs. Some have complications during birth that
create stress and fear. Some moms have a long recovery period from the
birth experience. Sometimes breastfeeding is very hard or doesn't work.
Sometimes moms expect that because they waited so long and worked so hard
to have a baby, (whether the pregnancy came easy or was a result of many
years of fertility work,) that they should be happier than they are.
And some women are severely affected by hormonal swings or their genetic
predisposition to depression or anxiety.
About 10% of pregnant
women experience depression or a related mood disorder. Prenatal mood
disorders are just as disturbing for the women as postpartum mood disorders,
though they are often passed off as normal side effects of pregnancy hormones.
Over
15% of mothers of newborns are afflicted with depression, obsessive thoughts,
and/or anxiety. Another one in a thousand suffers from postpartum psychosis.
These are NOT signs of bad or ill-prepared mothers. PPMDs come from hormonal
changes and genetic predispositions and can be exacerbated by life stressors.
The first step in coming
to peace with depression, anxiety, or disturbing obsessive thoughts is
to acknowledge how you are feeling.
The next step is to reach out for help.
Recognizing the Signs
Here
are some symptoms to be aware of. Remember that, as human beings, we are
complex. Therefore, it is not uncommon to experience symptoms in several
different areas.
Post Partum
Blues-"Baby Blues"
Onset: within the first week after birth
Occurrence rate: 80% of new mothers
Duration: from several days up to six weeks
Symptoms
* Mood
instability
* Weepiness
*
Sadness
* Anxiety
*
Lack of concentration
* Feelings
of dependency
Causes
*
Rapid hormonal changes
*
Physical and emotional stress of birthing
*
Physical discomforts
*
Emotional letdown after pregnancy and birth
*
Awareness and anxiety about increased responsibility
*
Fatigue and sleep deprivation
*
Disappointments including the birth, spousal support, nursing, and the
baby
Postpartum
Depression and/or Anxiety
Onset: Usually gradual but it can be rapid and occur any time in the first
year
Occurrence rate: 15-20% of mothers
Symptoms
*Excessive worry or anxiety
* Irritability
or short temper
* Feeling
overwhelmed, difficulty making decisions
* Sad
mood, feelings of guilt, phobias
* Hopelessness
* Sleep
problems (often woman cannot sleep or sleeps too much)
* Physical
symptoms or complaints in excess of, or without physical cause
* Discomfort
around the baby or a lack of feeling towards the baby
* Loss
of focus and concentration (may miss appointments, for example)
* Loss
of interest or pleasure, decreased libido
* Changes
in appetite; significant weight gain or loss
Risk Factors
*50-80% risk if previous postpartum depression
* Depression
or anxiety during pregnancy
* Personal
or family history of depression
* Abrupt
weaning
* Social
isolation or poor support
* History
of premenstrual syndrome (PMS) or premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD)
* Mood
changes while taking birth control pill or fertility medication, such
as Clomid
* Thyroid
dysfunction
Postpartum
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
Onset: Usually gradual but it can be rapid and occur any time in the first
year
Occurrence rate: 3-5% of new mothers
Symptoms
*Intrusive, repetitive and persistent thoughts or
mental pictures
* Thoughts
often are about hurting or killing the baby
* May
include counting, checking, or other repetitive behaviors
* Tremendous
sense of horror and disgust about these thoughts
Risk Factors
* Personal
or family history of OCD
Postpartum
Panic Disorder
Occurs in about 10% of postpartum women
Symptoms:
* Episodes
of extreme anxiety
* Shortness
of breath, chest pain, sensations of choking or smothering, dizziness
* Hot
or cold flashes, trembling, palpitations, numbness or tingling sensations
* Possible
restlessness, agitation or irritability
* During
attack, the woman may fear she is going crazy, dying or losing control
* Panic
attack may wake her up
* Often
no identifiable trigger for panic
* Excessive
worry or fears (may center around fear of more panic attacks)
Risk factors
* Previous
history of anxiety or panic disorder
* Thyroid
dysfunction
Postpartum
Psychosis
Onset: about 3 days postpartum
Occurrence rate: 1-3 per thousand new mothers
Symptoms
* Visual
or auditory hallucinations
* Delusional
thinking (for example, about infant death, denial or birth or need to
kill baby)
* Delirium
and/or mania
Risk Factors
* Personal
or family history of psychosis, bipolar disorder or schizophrenia
* Previous
postpartum psychotic or bipolar episode
Postpartum Posttraumatic
Stress Disorder (PTSD)
Symptoms
* Recurrent
nightmares
* Extreme
anxiety
* Reliving
past traumatic events (events may be sexual, physical, emotion or related
to childbirth)
Risk Factors
*Past traumatic events
Excerpt from: Bennett, S.,
Indman, P., Beyond the Blues: Prenatal & Postpartum Depression, A
Treatment Manual, Moodswings Press, San Jose, 2002, pp. 22-26.
Pre-Natal Mood Disorders
If you are pregnant
and experiencing symptoms of depression, anxiety or obsessive thinking,
you may have a prenatal mood disorder. Treatment is essential to return
to feeling like yourself again. Untreated depression can result in low
birth weight, preterm delivery and occasionally suicide in the mother.
If
you are pregnant and think you may be at risk for a PPMD, talk to your
midwife or obstetrician and ask her to screen you. If you are prepared
for the possibility of experiencing depression after your baby comes,
you will have the ability to overcome it quickly or even avoid it all
together if you surround yourself with resources.
What to do:
If
you are experiencing any of the symptoms listed above, it is time to seek
professional help. Women who are treated for postpartum mood disorders
have remarkably high recovery rates. They are able to bond with their
babies, feel good about their roles as mothers and lead very productive
and satisfying lives.
For
information about counseling or support groups contact Nancy Goodman,
LCSW, Click here to email (nancy@aparentconnection.com) or call 303-916-6929.
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